Because we have expectations, we want our partner to reach us to do what we want, and once the expectations are not met, we are disappointed. Under the domination of disappointment, at the beginning, you will make trouble, lose your temper, express your dissatisfaction, hoping to attract the attention of your other half, let him see your inner disappointment, and adjust his behavior; And the partner feels that he is being blamed, so he will not change. You will begin to command, to demand, to argue with him about right and wrong, to make him obey you and listen to you. You start fighting for p
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